A Special Appeal on Behalf of St. Mary’s Church, Southampton
As we are all aware, the Titanic disaster is a well-known story of global proportions, with few people unaware of when the ‘unsinkable’ British liner foundered in the icy North Atlantic Ocean in April 1912, claiming over 1,500 passengers and crew. No other shipping disaster had shocked governments to make sweeping changes to its laws for the safety of life at sea – and nowhere more was that tragic loss of life more greatly felt than in Southampton.
A total of 885 crew had signed-on the fated ship, and 673 perished; and of these, 549 lived in the port. Chapel and Northam districts suffered the greatest trauma, with very few streets reported not having lost someone. Overnight, 232 women were made widows and 1,239 children were orphaned. The loss also resulted in most dependants suffering the further hardship of having no breadwinner to bring home a wage. Within days, Mayor Henry Bowyer launched a relief fund to help ease their financial burden. A national Titanic Relief Fund was also created which eventually raised £413,000 (in excess of £20,000,000 at today’s values).
An impressive memorial service
On the afternoon of Saturday the 20th April 1912, the town came to a standstill; flags were lowered to half mast, and many shops closed their shutters out of respect for the occasion. Mayor Henry Bowyer and members of the Corporation of Southampton attended an impressive memorial service at the principal church of St. Mary’s. Led by mace bearers wearing formal attire, and carrying the Mayor’s ceremonial emblems of office, a long cortege slowly wound from the High Street to the church. Included in the procession were members of the Board of Magistrates, the Harbour Board and agents from almost every shipping office in the docks. Consular representations were made by America, France, Spain, Belgium, Turkey and three countries from South America.
Ranks of sailors and officers from the White Star and American Lines’ set-out for the church from other locations in the town.
People of all classes and spiritual belief lined the streets, many of them labouring to hide their grief as the sailors passed-by.
As the Mayoral procession approached St. Mary’s Church, the mournful tone of a single bell rang out to break the silence. Upon entering, sombre organ music could be heard; Bilan’s “Legend”, Danbose “In Paradisum” and Trauermarsch’s “Marche Funèbre.” With most of the congregation already seated, Mayor Bowyer and his party took their places, along with a remainder of dignitaries, which included the Lieutenant of Winchester, who represented His Majesty the King. Hundreds of mourners crammed at the church entrance in a vain attempt to hear the proceedings from within. The procession of clergy and choristers were the last to be seated, and upon doing so, the Reverend Canon Durel uttered the opening words of the Burial Service. Although no formal Order of Service is known to exist, it was reported one lesson was read by the Reverend R.A. Mitchell, and this was followed by the choir who sang Bpohr’s anthem, “Blessed are the departed.” During the ceremony the sounds of grieving ladies was frequently heard throughout the church. At intervals several of them had to be escorted outside into the open air having completely broken down.
Among those in particular distress was the wife of the lost commander, Captain E J Smith. She had been accompanied by a close family friend, Mr G Dominey, but her brave attempt to conceal her sorrow presented him with a source of deep concern.
The Bishop of Winchester gave the sermon, which included the words; “In spite of the glory of the spring and sunshine streaming in, there is a pall of sorrow over the country, which lay thicker over Southampton. None could remember a greater catastrophe so awful.”
The service closed with the singing of the mariner’s hymn; Eternal Father, Strong to Save, written by William Whiting in 1860.
St. Mary’s Church
There are currently in excess of 1,000 private or public memorials in over 30 countries, each containing a reference to the RMS Titanic. Yet, despite the terrific loss to Southampton, remarkably no memorial to the forgotten crew exists at St. Mary’s Church.
Some years ago, the Rector Julian Davies started a campaign to raise funds to install a memorial window at the northern side of the building. Although the plan has continued to receive widespread support, unfortunately, momentum has slowed over recent years. It is therefore incumbent on the Society’s Officers to bring the plight of the ‘memorial window’ to its member’s attention, and also to those in the wider maritime community. Many within our Society share the Reverend Julian’s ambition – so now is the time to act!
To date, a little over £10,000 has been raised towards the design, manufacture and installation of the window (which will consist of three constituent parts), however there is still an estimated £18,000 shortfall. Although the Society may not achieve the overall target alone, it would like to raise a considerable amount. Having discussed the matter in depth, the Officers are agreed it will implement a period of fundraising to commence on the 1st January 2015, and we would greatly encourage YOUR help and support. In addition, the Society will seek financial contributions from local businesses in Southampton, and invite press coverage to help publicise the event.
David Warner who starred in two Titanic films has pledged his support, as have the The Cunard Line. A competition is currently taking place for designs for the window, coordinated by the Glaziers’ City of London Livery Company – see News page for more details.
How can you help?
- Organise a fundraising event of your own. This can be from a sponsored walk or something more imaginative. Do inform the Society of your plans.
- Please make a donation, if you can; large or small. Cheques and money orders (in sterling only) should be made payable to: Mary’s Church Titanic window. Kindly send it to the Society’s address (PO BOX 401,Hope Carr Way, Leigh, Lancashire, WN7 3BB, United Kingdom), where it will then be forwarded directly to the appeal trustees. Alternatively, you can contribute securely now via the dedicated Paypal donate button:
“It is fitting to have this window in St Mary’s Church commemorating the loss of 549 Southampton lives in the Titanic disaster. Most of the victims and those impacted by the disaster came from the area covered by the City Centre Parish and many from the church. St Mary’s is also the civic and mother church of the city, and where the first memorial service was held. In 2012 we commemorated here the centenary anniversary in the presence of the Bishop of New York and city representatives. A previous Mayor Cllr Cunio had chosen the window as one of her charities and raised £5,000 towards it, so it would be good if we could see this finished. To date £10,000 has been raised, but we need to find another £18,000.”
Reverend Julian Davies, Rector of St. Mary’s Church. Southampton
Thank you for your support.
Submitted by the Officers of the Society.